Well where do I start? Perhaps at the very beginning… a very good place to start (name that musical?!)
I initially started this blog a few years ago now (wow, that makes me feel old!) I had just moved into a new house, with the guy I had been seeing for 4 years and our reactive dog BD. I thought this blog would be the perfect place to document our lives together as well as the joys and challenges of living with a reactive dog… and there are a few posts about that… but…
We lasted 9 months.
Yep. 9 months into living together my (now ex) turned around to me and said he was ‘sorry’ but he couldn’t do it any more. I got all the usual lines: “it’s not you, it’s me?”… “I just need sometime to figure it out and then I will come back to back to you”… “I will always love you”… “we will stay friends”. In fact I even got a romantic break to Paris thrown in as a weird break-up gift… anyway.
6 weeks after telling me he loved me, he was in bed with someone else.
18 months after promising we could share BD and that he would never take him from me… well I bet you can guess… there are a few few blog posts about me trying to deal with all that…
And then slowly things turned around.
I got my own place. I got a new job. I got my own rabbit and eventually I got a new boyfriend (Raoul) and that kinda brings you smack bang up to date.
What the future looks like, I don’t know. What you will find on here… yep, not sure about that either. But why not join me for the ride?